Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Ate Whole Pringles Can Olestra
Moves: How to respond to and overcome the trauma
separations are getting worse, they are mourning that we are against our will to develop, especially if painful traumas us to be abandoned. Some react by threatening suicide, others begin to haunt the former beloved, and some rather suffer through the pain and letting it go through because the pain is there and is undeniable. However, not everyone who is close to us can stand this pain: some are set back, others pronounce sentences of-fact, never mind! You'll see that it will pass, give yourself time! ... A dead pope. - With the result that it feels more and more alone, more misunderstood and more confused. He knows and feels that sentences of those who are good, who does not like us are suffering the anguish of abandonment and separation, and that have the opposite effect, make us angry and make us even more sad and lonely. When you are abandoned personal security is undermined, and for a moment his identity is turned upside down: "It 's my fault, my mistake, I will change if that's what she wants!", Without calling into question the slightest act the other, as if to be sure, whether it is abandoned, è perché lo si è voluto e meritato. Si entra così nella fase di separazione-frustrazione: l’unione è andata in frantumi, con essa molte delle proprie certezze e si “subisce” la situazione di abbandono. Nessuno sembra in grado di aiutarci a far fronte e il peso del dolore sembra tutto sulle nostre spalle: non neghiamo allora l’evidenza e parliamo col nostro dolore, usiamolo per capire e capirci, trasformiamo l’abbandono in separazione attiva, facendo una corretta analisi della situazione per comprendere cosa davvero è accaduto, senza darsi né dare la colpa ma soffermandosi ad analizzare le dinamiche spesso malate e consolidate che hanno portato alla rottura. Poche volte ci si chiede -Dove ho sbagliato? In cosa ho contribuito?- ci si limita a dire è colpa di…, evitando qualsiasi elaborazione consapevole perché, la nostra educazione basata sul giudizio e sulla critica, impedisce una piena consapevolezza dei fatti: comprendere perché lui/lei ci ha tradito o se ne è andato può essere un’occasione di crescita personale e un modo per riacquistare la propria sicurezza. Dopo un simile lavoro si dovrebbe arrivare ad essere in grado di dire: il rapporto è finito per X motivi,io ho contribuito Y e lui K, in cosa posso migliorare io? Perché ricordiamocelo, il lavoro lo possiamo fare solo su noi stessi, non possiamo pretendere di cambiare una persona, ancor più se questa ha chiaramente “declinato l’invito”. Then begin to take back our lives, and why not, maybe watching some piece of advice including:
1) Concediamoci our time to go through the grieving, and each has its time and it is good that we take care of us because is normal to be vulnerable after an abandonment, and if others demand that we laugh or joke, or that we are always available, kindly respond "No thanks" because remember, friends and partners you can choose
2) We understand what really happened: recognize their mistakes and those of partners is essential: an understanding helps us to overcome the trauma and gives us a greater sense of control over the situation
3) We accept that in life nothing is certain and that is the disorder to order: when we think of the change of season in the closet, before we make the mess of winter clothes and then we place the summer, all well-sorted: the life is the same, after a period of confusion, always returns to stability, after the storm there is always the peaceful
4) Take new initiatives focus on new projects or meddle with something left over. The mistake often made is to put aside their lives for their partner without thinking that nothing is certain and nothing is ever
5) Find new ideas for personal improvement: enroll in language courses, ballo, fotografia in base ai propri interessi, si possono conoscere persone nuove con cui condividere interessi nuovi
6) Annotiamo i nostri progressi in un diario: impariamo a gratificarci da soli: la nostra cultura non elogia i miglioramenti, nessuno ti dice “bravo!B se fai bene qualcosa, ma basta che fai un minimo errore che subito ti vien fatto notare e devi porre rimedio. Allora iniziamo a dirci bravi e non aspettiamo che ce lo dicano gli altri.. potremmo trovarci ad aspettare molto molto a lungo.
Questi sono solo dei piccoli suggerimenti, piccole fiaccole per illuminare il percorso di crescita personale attraverso la scoperta del dolore. Quando una persona soffre, comprende i propri errori, scopre le sue risorse, diventa una persona nuova, more aware and stronger because, as Oscar Wilde said: "Experience is the name we give our mistakes." 
separations are getting worse, they are mourning that we are against our will to develop, especially if painful traumas us to be abandoned. Some react by threatening suicide, others begin to haunt the former beloved, and some rather suffer through the pain and letting it go through because the pain is there and is undeniable. However, not everyone who is close to us can stand this pain: some are set back, others pronounce sentences of-fact, never mind! You'll see that it will pass, give yourself time! ... A dead pope. - With the result that it feels more and more alone, more misunderstood and more confused. He knows and feels that sentences of those who are good, who does not like us are suffering the anguish of abandonment and separation, and that have the opposite effect, make us angry and make us even more sad and lonely. When you are abandoned personal security is undermined, and for a moment his identity is turned upside down: "It 's my fault, my mistake, I will change if that's what she wants!", Without calling into question the slightest act the other, as if to be sure, whether it is abandoned, è perché lo si è voluto e meritato. Si entra così nella fase di separazione-frustrazione: l’unione è andata in frantumi, con essa molte delle proprie certezze e si “subisce” la situazione di abbandono. Nessuno sembra in grado di aiutarci a far fronte e il peso del dolore sembra tutto sulle nostre spalle: non neghiamo allora l’evidenza e parliamo col nostro dolore, usiamolo per capire e capirci, trasformiamo l’abbandono in separazione attiva, facendo una corretta analisi della situazione per comprendere cosa davvero è accaduto, senza darsi né dare la colpa ma soffermandosi ad analizzare le dinamiche spesso malate e consolidate che hanno portato alla rottura. Poche volte ci si chiede -Dove ho sbagliato? In cosa ho contribuito?- ci si limita a dire è colpa di…, evitando qualsiasi elaborazione consapevole perché, la nostra educazione basata sul giudizio e sulla critica, impedisce una piena consapevolezza dei fatti: comprendere perché lui/lei ci ha tradito o se ne è andato può essere un’occasione di crescita personale e un modo per riacquistare la propria sicurezza. Dopo un simile lavoro si dovrebbe arrivare ad essere in grado di dire: il rapporto è finito per X motivi,io ho contribuito Y e lui K, in cosa posso migliorare io? Perché ricordiamocelo, il lavoro lo possiamo fare solo su noi stessi, non possiamo pretendere di cambiare una persona, ancor più se questa ha chiaramente “declinato l’invito”. Then begin to take back our lives, and why not, maybe watching some piece of advice including:
1) Concediamoci our time to go through the grieving, and each has its time and it is good that we take care of us because is normal to be vulnerable after an abandonment, and if others demand that we laugh or joke, or that we are always available, kindly respond "No thanks" because remember, friends and partners you can choose
2) We understand what really happened: recognize their mistakes and those of partners is essential: an understanding helps us to overcome the trauma and gives us a greater sense of control over the situation
3) We accept that in life nothing is certain and that is the disorder to order: when we think of the change of season in the closet, before we make the mess of winter clothes and then we place the summer, all well-sorted: the life is the same, after a period of confusion, always returns to stability, after the storm there is always the peaceful
4) Take new initiatives focus on new projects or meddle with something left over. The mistake often made is to put aside their lives for their partner without thinking that nothing is certain and nothing is ever
5) Find new ideas for personal improvement: enroll in language courses, ballo, fotografia in base ai propri interessi, si possono conoscere persone nuove con cui condividere interessi nuovi
6) Annotiamo i nostri progressi in un diario: impariamo a gratificarci da soli: la nostra cultura non elogia i miglioramenti, nessuno ti dice “bravo!B se fai bene qualcosa, ma basta che fai un minimo errore che subito ti vien fatto notare e devi porre rimedio. Allora iniziamo a dirci bravi e non aspettiamo che ce lo dicano gli altri.. potremmo trovarci ad aspettare molto molto a lungo.
Questi sono solo dei piccoli suggerimenti, piccole fiaccole per illuminare il percorso di crescita personale attraverso la scoperta del dolore. Quando una persona soffre, comprende i propri errori, scopre le sue risorse, diventa una persona nuova, more aware and stronger because, as Oscar Wilde said: "Experience is the name we give our mistakes."
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Cat Litter Under A Rabbit Hutch
"Going by the psychologist "when how and why: May free of psychological information
Hello everyone, this week's contribution touches a very sensitive issue that always raises questions and concerns, unfortunately, many misconceptions. "Why should I go to the psychologist? Mica is crazy! "-Or-" The Couch does more harm than good .. change you! "
These and other considerations still say a lot about how the figure of the psychologist is unfortunately surrounded by a string of prejudices and stereotypes to be wrong. Sometimes confused with a wizard who read minds, and sometimes as a visionary who foresees the future, others as a trainer of love potions, or as someone who will change you!
Here my dear readers, today I want to focus on just this issue: Who is actually a psychologist, so go there and especially quando.Per answer these questions, you must first be clear about what the psychological distress: being mentally ill does not mean crazy, go crazy, but involves presenting a variety of ailments, not always easily recognizable, they do suffer more than one disease fisica.Stare evil means to be psychologically very sad, so sad not to be trovare conforto in nulla. Significa avere dei pensieri fissi che si ostinano a stare nella nostra mente e noi non sappiamo come mandarli via. Significa avere paura di qualcosa che in fin dei conti sappiamo essere innocuo. Significa avere dei comportamenti che ci fanno sentire un po’ diversi da chi consideriamo essere nella norma (ovviamente, se si parte dal presupposto che esistano persone classificabili come "normali"!).
La sofferenza psicologica ci provoca un disagio interno che il più delle volte non viene percepito da chi ci è vicino. Abbiamo paura che gli altri si accorgano che ci sentiamo diversi, e questo ci provocherebbe imbarazzo. Così, possiamo diventare molto abili a nascondere le nostre paure, ad inventare scuse per non uscire, to take us around saying "I'm not, but it's nothing ..." Unfortunately, people are not always careful about their psychological health as are their physical health and tend to procrastinate, avoid, deny the existence of the inner problem: Often, a person (or a family member or someone close) go to a psychologist only when the symptoms of some discomfort (anxiety, panic, depression or other) have become unmanageable and the person's life is compromised in various areas.
for example, by symptoms of anxiety starting to occur for any reason, you tend to think it is something of a passenger and, fortunately, many times it is. Other times these symptoms begin to deteriorate: increase in frequency, intensity and long run, if not treated in time, in an appropriate manner, can invalidate the persona.La person who has these symptoms will not go out for fear of being sick and not being able to manage the symptoms may also get to limit the scope of employment, social and emotional.
to a psychologist since the first signs of discomfort is essential to prevent the aggravation of a situation.
The psychologist is a professional who can understand the discomfort that a person lives, provide an explanation as to why is experiencing a situation of uneasiness and calm about what is going through. This course is not to say: " Do not worry, it will pass and then think about who is worse off than you! "Because that would demean or worse, ignore the experience of pain and helplessness that the person brings.
through times of psychological distress can happen: to suffer from depression, anxiety, panic attacks (just to mention the most common illnesses) is not a sign of madness! We are people with our way of being in the world and suffer, in this connection to my patients often remember a phrase from one of my teacher that I was often lit up: "Welcome to the world of humans!" This is to make people understand how is "normal" and "human suffering, sick, afraid to feel emotions in a social context where everything is a refugee as a sign of weakness and inability to live. If, in addition to these social messages devaluing join the feelings of guilt and shame due to age-old heritage-related mental suffering here is that only when the person is seen severely limited by his illness to the psychologist for help. Comes the fear of social stigma, "necessary" to hide the symptoms of "disease" so that it can not be recognized by society. The psychological ailments are frightening: how do you feel a symptom you are scared, the first time is a trauma that you try to forget immediately. But then, it sometimes recurs a second time, a terza e poi ancora. E ogni volta la persona fa di tutto per arginare e contenere i "danni" dei sintomi. Non se ne parla per vergogna e ci si difende sempre più nell'attesa angosciosa che si ripresenti il sintomo. Alla fine però, il sintomo diventa parte della vita della persona, diventando cronico, sepolto sotto tutto ciò che una persona ha fatto per "nasconderlo", "non pensarci", "metterlo da parte".
Con l'aiuto dello psicologo la persona impara a capire come la mente umana e in particolar modo la propria, funziona, quali sono le proprie risorse e i propri script, ovvero i copioni che l’individuo tende a ripresentare sempre uguali a sé stessi. Si conoscono le proprie risorse e si impara a saperle utilizzare, abbandonando adaptive strategies that, if the person is bad, obviously at some point no longer work or have malfunctioned.
The psychologist is not to set himself up as judge who trashed our entire lives giving us the "truth" about how to be lived .. he just provides another point of view, another way to go, which is no better, but just another view of things, giving the person a chance to choose (a huge step forward compared to having only ever a ' only alternative: his own.) The person is now to what it was, with his wounds, his injuries, his resources and his defense mechanisms and the work is done by the psychologist the session is designed to "bring order" and include many obscure or unclear aspects and sides responsible for the malaise afflicting the person. Working together it discovers and rediscovers its potential, new resources and mental journeys just beginning a journey that will see the first psychologist to his side, then continue on their own.
is good to remember that the "professional mind" is an expert who has followed a specific training course to learn the proper care for the psychological evils which differ greatly from those effective in the strictly physical discomfort (recall also that if the mind suffers, the consequences affect also on the body).
Go to the psychologist, the therapist does not presume to be "crazy" or "different", but be responsible, take care of their health in the broadest sense, means to ultimately improve their quality of life. Psychological May Benefit Information: You can request a free consultation and maybe discover a "new perspective" 
Hello everyone, this week's contribution touches a very sensitive issue that always raises questions and concerns, unfortunately, many misconceptions. "Why should I go to the psychologist? Mica is crazy! "-Or-" The Couch does more harm than good .. change you! "
These and other considerations still say a lot about how the figure of the psychologist is unfortunately surrounded by a string of prejudices and stereotypes to be wrong. Sometimes confused with a wizard who read minds, and sometimes as a visionary who foresees the future, others as a trainer of love potions, or as someone who will change you!
Here my dear readers, today I want to focus on just this issue: Who is actually a psychologist, so go there and especially quando.Per answer these questions, you must first be clear about what the psychological distress: being mentally ill does not mean crazy, go crazy, but involves presenting a variety of ailments, not always easily recognizable, they do suffer more than one disease fisica.Stare evil means to be psychologically very sad, so sad not to be trovare conforto in nulla. Significa avere dei pensieri fissi che si ostinano a stare nella nostra mente e noi non sappiamo come mandarli via. Significa avere paura di qualcosa che in fin dei conti sappiamo essere innocuo. Significa avere dei comportamenti che ci fanno sentire un po’ diversi da chi consideriamo essere nella norma (ovviamente, se si parte dal presupposto che esistano persone classificabili come "normali"!).
La sofferenza psicologica ci provoca un disagio interno che il più delle volte non viene percepito da chi ci è vicino. Abbiamo paura che gli altri si accorgano che ci sentiamo diversi, e questo ci provocherebbe imbarazzo. Così, possiamo diventare molto abili a nascondere le nostre paure, ad inventare scuse per non uscire, to take us around saying "I'm not, but it's nothing ..." Unfortunately, people are not always careful about their psychological health as are their physical health and tend to procrastinate, avoid, deny the existence of the inner problem: Often, a person (or a family member or someone close) go to a psychologist only when the symptoms of some discomfort (anxiety, panic, depression or other) have become unmanageable and the person's life is compromised in various areas.
for example, by symptoms of anxiety starting to occur for any reason, you tend to think it is something of a passenger and, fortunately, many times it is. Other times these symptoms begin to deteriorate: increase in frequency, intensity and long run, if not treated in time, in an appropriate manner, can invalidate the persona.La person who has these symptoms will not go out for fear of being sick and not being able to manage the symptoms may also get to limit the scope of employment, social and emotional.
to a psychologist since the first signs of discomfort is essential to prevent the aggravation of a situation.
The psychologist is a professional who can understand the discomfort that a person lives, provide an explanation as to why is experiencing a situation of uneasiness and calm about what is going through. This course is not to say: " Do not worry, it will pass and then think about who is worse off than you! "Because that would demean or worse, ignore the experience of pain and helplessness that the person brings.
through times of psychological distress can happen: to suffer from depression, anxiety, panic attacks (just to mention the most common illnesses) is not a sign of madness! We are people with our way of being in the world and suffer, in this connection to my patients often remember a phrase from one of my teacher that I was often lit up: "Welcome to the world of humans!" This is to make people understand how is "normal" and "human suffering, sick, afraid to feel emotions in a social context where everything is a refugee as a sign of weakness and inability to live. If, in addition to these social messages devaluing join the feelings of guilt and shame due to age-old heritage-related mental suffering here is that only when the person is seen severely limited by his illness to the psychologist for help. Comes the fear of social stigma, "necessary" to hide the symptoms of "disease" so that it can not be recognized by society. The psychological ailments are frightening: how do you feel a symptom you are scared, the first time is a trauma that you try to forget immediately. But then, it sometimes recurs a second time, a terza e poi ancora. E ogni volta la persona fa di tutto per arginare e contenere i "danni" dei sintomi. Non se ne parla per vergogna e ci si difende sempre più nell'attesa angosciosa che si ripresenti il sintomo. Alla fine però, il sintomo diventa parte della vita della persona, diventando cronico, sepolto sotto tutto ciò che una persona ha fatto per "nasconderlo", "non pensarci", "metterlo da parte".
Con l'aiuto dello psicologo la persona impara a capire come la mente umana e in particolar modo la propria, funziona, quali sono le proprie risorse e i propri script, ovvero i copioni che l’individuo tende a ripresentare sempre uguali a sé stessi. Si conoscono le proprie risorse e si impara a saperle utilizzare, abbandonando adaptive strategies that, if the person is bad, obviously at some point no longer work or have malfunctioned.
The psychologist is not to set himself up as judge who trashed our entire lives giving us the "truth" about how to be lived .. he just provides another point of view, another way to go, which is no better, but just another view of things, giving the person a chance to choose (a huge step forward compared to having only ever a ' only alternative: his own.) The person is now to what it was, with his wounds, his injuries, his resources and his defense mechanisms and the work is done by the psychologist the session is designed to "bring order" and include many obscure or unclear aspects and sides responsible for the malaise afflicting the person. Working together it discovers and rediscovers its potential, new resources and mental journeys just beginning a journey that will see the first psychologist to his side, then continue on their own.
is good to remember that the "professional mind" is an expert who has followed a specific training course to learn the proper care for the psychological evils which differ greatly from those effective in the strictly physical discomfort (recall also that if the mind suffers, the consequences affect also on the body).
Go to the psychologist, the therapist does not presume to be "crazy" or "different", but be responsible, take care of their health in the broadest sense, means to ultimately improve their quality of life. Psychological May Benefit Information: You can request a free consultation and maybe discover a "new perspective"
Monday, April 12, 2010
Lady Libertine Watch Free Online
Legilimens? Si da Intel
The famous paranormal powers, since man is on the ground say there are some individuals brain capacity than normal, paranormal.
Sorcerers, wizards, witches (including Harry Potter) and may be equipped with various sensory, in future, from the giants: INTEL!
early because it was presented to the Tech Heaven in New York the first prototype machine that can read minds.
Of course we are still early days simply because it is impractical to say, to have such a machine at hand (not counting the cost, it is only a prototype), there are features the physical as prohibitive. In this regard, however, spoke to Dean Pomerleau Development Group Intel researcher who claims to have faith in technological progress which will in future contain everything you need in a simple cap.
The famous paranormal powers, since man is on the ground say there are some individuals brain capacity than normal, paranormal. Sorcerers, wizards, witches (including Harry Potter) and may be equipped with various sensory, in future, from the giants: INTEL!
early because it was presented to the Tech Heaven in New York the first prototype machine that can read minds.
The test was structured as follows:
- the subject was connected to a device for detecting magnetic resonance with an algorithm which associates to each type of survey, one of the words previously suggested to be a professor.
Currently there is greater accuracy than 90%.
Currently there is greater accuracy than 90%.
Of course we are still early days simply because it is impractical to say, to have such a machine at hand (not counting the cost, it is only a prototype), there are features the physical as prohibitive. In this regard, however, spoke to Dean Pomerleau Development Group Intel researcher who claims to have faith in technological progress which will in future contain everything you need in a simple cap. would be a revolution in information technology and assistive technology that would allow people with mobility problems to use machines without using the mouse and other human machine interface.
course ... then go on a date with a beautiful woman and would not have the magic cap price, a bit 'like in the movie What Women Want!
Or realize what we all want when you forget the lights on and was already in bed. As the great Benigni in "Life is Beautiful, intensely watching the lamp thinks and says" Out, out Out, out ... "
Greetings from Ste!
the prossimaaaa
Thursday, April 8, 2010
How Do I Find My Mom & Dad
Amore o Natura, chi vince?
Hola a todos!
E’ un bel po’ che non ci si sente eh? Sono qui per raccontare un storia, una bella storia, quasi una favola amorosa direi. Se state pensando a qualche vostro conoscente o ad un'altra persona vi sbagliate. E’ nel mondo animale infatti che accadono i fatti più stupefacenti; nella fattispecie è un cicogna, cicogno per l’esattezza, che ci sorprende per il suo fortissimo sentimento d’amore verso la sua compagna.
Sono ben 5 anni che il nostro protagonista chiamato Rodan reaches its companion Malena away from South Africa to Europe, in the Croatian village Brodsky Varos, covering over 13,000 flying miles.
The incident happened back in 1993 when the female was injured in a wing by a hunter (if we want to express opinions: they are against hunting, and you?) And curated by the Croatian biologist who currently is dealing with it since then can no longer fly.
A sad fate for a migratory animals, but luck would have it a few years later he met our Rodan every year just to migrate from the warmer areas of the planet to return from his companion in the early spring. The two are also close to becoming parents because there are less than 2 months, 4 eggs laid by Malena be opened, and, strange but true, it will be the father to teach children to fly!
So even in the animal world the male would seem that we are specializing in the care of children! It 's true that necessity is virtue, we are more and more career women who receive a higher income than their peers in these test themselves more and more home life!
This is true love, which dominates every distance. ... Or not?
It 'nice to think of this story a romance novel but it is not and it must be said, though the vague feeling of love in the world of living beings is my duty to recognize the immense power of nature so as to humans, the animal has the need and His goal reproduce and pass on genes to their offspring. This case is no exception although it may seem strange, after the stork coupled follows a genetically predetermined process that leads to the hatching of eggs.
A will judge you, love can be defined in this case, or is the force of nature that goes beyond all distances?
Ste!
Ste!
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